Where does a Sydney polycurious or polyamorous person get started if they want to find like-minded people to connect with or partners for a polyamorous relationship?
The best place to start is to sign up to our poly dating online site, search for the Poly Finda app in your app store.
Ok Cupid offers a curious and fun mix of singles looking for all sorts of partnerships, and for whatever reason, it has attracted a significant number of polyamorous singles and couples looking for other folks to share their love with.
I’m certainly not the only person in a non-monogamous relationship these days; my open status doesn’t score me nearly as many cool points as it once did, nor is it as controversial as it once was. Four years into our relationship and one year into our marriage, my wife Chris and I decided to open our relationship. NON-MONOGAMY: You’re doing it wrong/That shit’s hard.The success of mono/poly relationships depends on both partners accepting and respecting each other as individuals with different emotional needs.We live in a mononormative culture that tells us relationships are only valid when they’re exclusive.More on that later.) A monogamist in a relationship with a poly person must come to terms with the following realities: Polyamory is my natural love-style and my lifestyle reflects it.
My polyamorous orientation is a fixed trait and not something for me to overcome. While people can and do change their minds about polyamory, your best bet is to assume it’s never going to happen.The thing is, networking is key in this kind of search, and often times you'll find meeting folks at real-world events the best way to communicate and connect with like-minded individuals.With that in mind, try searching Meetup.com, Fet Life (see above), Facebook, and Loving More for resource, groups and connections.The good news is that monogamous people can enjoy fulfilling relationships with polyamorous people.The bad news is that mono/poly relationships are not easy.None of these specifically cater to the polyamory community though. It makes it easy to find poly people all around the world.