Ok, so it’s tempting to choose to date a girl who’s just like you.What really matters is finding a girl who can help you see things differently—that’s a window.
There are all kinds of advice out there about dating today, but a lot of it is about dating in the world rather than Christian dating.Christians need to have a different attitude toward dating.You see certain “role models” jumping from one dating relationship to another.Yet God has more in store for you than just jumping from one relationship to another.Non-Christians have a different perspective on dating.
You see the magazines, TV shows, and movies that tell you how you’re young, and you should date a lot of people before you get married.Tell her kindly you won’t be calling anymore because you aren’t interested in a romantic relationship.It will sting a little for her, but it’s better than leading her on for months and her having 372 discussions with her friends. I’ve been dating an amazing spiritual girl, so I can speak from both sides of the coin: how to mess up in a relationship and how to mess up when you’re single (I consider myself a master of both). And some (like me) more than all others…But I’m here to tell you that there’s hope! I’m really proud of him for conveying such a tough message! Why are you hiding behind prayers, vague intentions, group hangouts, and TEXT MESSAGES? If you are clearly leading her on step up and ask her out, or stop leading her on.