Am dating

Instead, he laughed, made jokes on himself and his single status, and endeared himself to everyone who watched that episode.

But when 30 hit, let’s just say God and me were in a fight.

You go to youth group, you love Jesus, you meet someone, you graduate high school, you get married, and as the fairy tales say, “You live happily ever after.” When I was 19 I was ready. At 27, I understood and accepted that God was using the last few years to prepare me for marriage.

In the last two years, Arbaaz Khan has been in the news more for his personal life than anything else. And if he was coming undone with it, he did a bloody good job of hiding it.

In most troubled marriages, one person wants out, while the other wants to fix things.

There seemed to be 10 girls for every single available guy in church.

Then there was the pressure of every person I knew asking about my relationship status every time I saw them.I never would have considered dating a non-Christian. In fact, “loves God and puts Him first” was always on the top of the list of what I was looking for. It started as impatience, but it soon developed into a rampaging beast of unbelief, doubt, and worst of all, hopelessness.It felt like everyone I knew was married, including the kids I used to babysit.Here, AB, as his sister Alvira calls him (short for Arbaaz Bhai) talks about coping with his newfound single status, about dating and why he doesn’t see himself committing again anytime soon. I am not saying that any of those are completely washed away. Probably less vocal now than I used to be because I sometimes feel that saying things to people is ineffective, like water off a duck’s back. I have realised that you have to feel what you feel and cope and deal with it yourself rather than trying to express it because sometimes nothing comes out of it.There will always be a sense of things you want to achieve, where you want to be, a sense of disappointment, a few regrets here and there. How you cope with them and how you move on is what your life is about. I am as sensitive as my brothers and other members of my family. Being sensitive means caring for your own feelings as well as those of others. People do not listen, they don’t care, they do their own thing.I felt he had so much more to say than he did then.